Monday, May 11, 2026

May Days

Hello!  It’s been a minute.  With so much cacophony on the internet these days, I’m increasingly loathe to add my voice (however small and innocuous) to the overall noise.  There is so much temptation to despair and I just…can’t.*  


The musical at the kids’ school this year was My Fair Lady and I ended up doing all the costuming myself.  Piglet had a main role as Alfed P. Doolittle and he was a scream!  So funny.  There were a lot of funny moments in the play and the production really was spectacular.  








Our Eliza was magnificent, but Higgins and Pickering also knocked it out of the park.  Fun fact: my main backstage role this year was valeting the actor playing Pickering—ha!


Probably our best show to date, and also our biggest.  Costuming was a ton of fun but also a LOT of work.  I’m particularly pleased with how the Ascot scene turned out, but honestly, getting all the Cockney Ensemble folks ready was fun too.  I got to build Eliza’s ballroom jewelry, including the great hair ornament.

I enjoyed it so much and am looking forward to costuming the Shakespeare play in the fall (Boo, Birdie, and Ponchik all have roles).





As soon as that wrapped up in late March, I pivoted back to my book in progress because I wanted to enter the first part of it into a writing competition.  (They wanted the first 5000 words, which I had, easily, but needed to fix some of the flow in that section).  In the process, I rediscovered an editing software I used on All This Without You.  I had used it for line edits on grammar and liked it a lot better than Grammarly (which gives me a pain), so I was inclined to go back to it on this book.  

In these intervening years, the software has had major upgrades and now includes a whole box of analytical tools that are so helpful.  I used it for a manuscript analysis and I was immediately able to dive into substantive editing with a lot of good direction.  My second analysis was similarly useful.  I’m wrapping up the last of that analysis before running another (or possibly running the beta reader function).  I’m hoping to have real beta readers look at it this summer.  

My only complaint is that a lot of my characters are speaking in dialect, and the grammar checker absolutely cannot deal with it.  I’m sure there is probably a way to do something in the settings, but my computer is very elderly (the lady at the Apple store said “vintage”) so I think I don’t have as much functionality as I would on a newer model.  But it still works (except for the keyboard, which is finicky and troublesome, so I’m on a bluetooth keyboard that I do not love, but whatever).  I’m not interested in changing out electronics just because.  My phone is old, my teeth are gold, and now my story is all told.**


I put in some heavy labor at the garden during the last week in April and I need to do a bit more this week on my plot.  I’m on the committee that takes care of the communal areas and I have a section I’m responsible for, so a good chunk of that heavy labor involved dealing with that.  

We are looking to have a bumper strawberry harvest, though!  I bought a couple of tomato plants, a cuke and a pepper, put in seeds several weeks ago and we’ll see what we get.  I was so busy in March and April I didn’t really get to enjoy the spring bulbs much, but that’s okay.  There’s always next year.

And before it gets super ridiculous to share, here’s my Javelin sweater, completed in late January or early February.  I wanted to make this pattern for several years, but I absolutely could not get my brain around the gauge or the pattern repeat, until suddenly I could.  (For the record, it is a twisted rib that is knit through the back loop; I wish she had said that somewhere in the pattern!  I would have made it a lot sooner).  

I also have a hard time figuring out gauge when it has to be over a pattern.  How does one count the stitches?  I’ve done it a few times now and I *think* I’ve figured it out?  But it always throws me for a loop (ha—see what I did there?)

Nothing much to note about the pattern itself; it was very straightforward once I got the pattern repeat down, and Teti’s patterns are all so intelligently designed with short rows to lengthen the back, and other small details like that.  I very consistently get well-fitting sweaters I love from her patterns.  It is worsted weight and I wore it a lot during these past few cold months.

It’s spring now and the weather is drunk, so go home please.  We had some days of 90 degree weather, then it dropped back close to freezing, and then has been swinging between the 80s and the 50s.  I’ve swapped my wool unders for silk ones, but I’m still cold all the time, except when I’m boiling in the 90 degree heat.  Ah, spring.  



Piglet successfully defended his senior thesis last week and now we are in the very fast slide to graduation in about a month.  *gulp*  He’s currently on his senior capstone trip to Europe with his classmates.  


So I’m feeling all the feelings, natch. I knew it would be like this—like the merry-go-round is going too fast and I really want to get off and let the scene settle in front my eyes for a few moments, but the best I can do is hold on and enjoy the ride.


That’s it for me at the moment.  I just finished the new Count of Monte Cristo series on PBS (very good, highly recommend) and  am trying to finish The Forsytes (not as good, very mixed feelings as I love the 2002 version and this one is…different).  


Discovered the 2008 Sense and Sensibility from the BBC (written by Andrew Davies, who did the 1995 Pride and Prejudice).  I absolutely adore Emma Thompson’s take on the book, and Alan Rickman will always be the definitive Col. Brandon for me, but I really like the BBC's 3-episode series.  The three-hour series is able to cover much more of the book than the movie.  


I’m trying to keep my head down on the editing and gardening and everything else that needs doing this time of year. I started the Orna sweater in January right after finishing the Javelin, but it is going slower because I had to set it aside until last week. It is worsted weight so I won’t want to wear it for a while anyway, and it is good to have an all-over pattern that is engaging but not impossible to follow. It is strange to not have a dozen handwork projects on the go, but that is okay too. Reading and editing are important and enjoyable too.


*Pascha photos courtesy of a very talented photographer at our parish; photos of My Fair Lady from a talented professional photographer parent at our school.

**Riffing on Dr. Suess.  Bonus points if you can name that book.